By being tall, you are signaling that you have good genes.” So what’s the matter with Jersey City women? “It’s going against the normal pattern for most humans,” she said.It's true that some women are sexually attracted and open to dating a short man, but a quick poll of your friends—or any group of adults, for that matter—will quickly confirm just how stigmatized short men are in our culture.
The likelihood that a man under 5-foot-9 is contacted by a Manhattan or Bronx woman online is a scant 1.2 percent, with Brooklyn coming in with a paltry 2.4 percent response rate, according to a study conducted by the dating site AYI.com, which analyzed 50,000 interactions over two months.Staten Island short stacks had just a 4.1 chance of being chatted up online, and Queens mini-men rounded out the boroughs with 5.4 percent.“People in bigger cities have more options and tend to be pickier,” explained Josh Fischer, who led the study.Brooklynite Nick Rizzo knows the sting of big-otry all too well.“It’s just a fact of life that most women taller than me aren’t willing to date me,” confessed the 5-foot-7 28-year-old, who said he has found that women are often “uncomfortable” when their date doesn’t measure up.
“Maybe they’re worried about how it will look to other people,” he added. Shorties in Jersey City have a 7.6 percent likelihood of being contacted by the fairer sex — that’s a staggering 533 percent more likely than short men in Manhattan/Bronx.
“Jersey City, as opposed to Manhattan, has a bit more of a community vibe.
People actually get to know each other here, and are a bit more laid-back,” said Bethany, a 5-foot, 28-year-old Jersey City woman who doesn’t mind dating a short man.
Still, there are some pitfalls when dating the diminutive, she warned.
“Short men don’t always have Napoleon complexes, but definitely steer clear of the ones that do.” Some short men don’t help their cause. He was already seated when I walked in,” recalled a 5-foot-6, 42-year-old Chelsea woman. When I got up to leave, I saw that the man who had said he was 5-6 was actually 5-0.
“I must have had a fairly surprised look on my face.