(OK, you sure, but you don't broadcast it.) You've imagined a future in which you remain single and it doesn’t look so bad. Right will have to work hard to earn your time and attention, and to convince you to marry him. Your Life Story is Valuable So don't give it away on the first date.This attitude makes you more of a challenge than you might have been in your 30s, and therefore more interesting to men. Reveal yourself slowly, over many months, and make him earn each jewel. Focus on Fitness Investing in your health and fitness level has a guaranteed return that will positively impact every area of your life.So join the best gym you can afford, and work out regularly with a personal trainer.
READ: Wearing Makeup at the Gym: Cheating Your Way to a Flawless Face #6.Don't Overlook the Importance of Female Friends The next time you're outnumbered at a singles event, make sure you circulate among the other women in the room.You never know — that new gal pal may have a brother or co-worker who would be perfect for you. Don't Advertise Your Wealth and Achievements Your contacts and social network are like glittering treasures.Protect them fiercely and you'll never be exploited or scammed.Despite what you might have heard, a 40-plus woman doesn't need special strategies or tricks to date for marriage.
What worked at 25 is what will work at 35, 45, 55 and beyond — you just need to remember that you truly are a catch!READ: How to Tell If You're Dating a Narcissist Read on for nine priceless tips that will help you stay positive in the dating game. Don't Fall Victim to Scarcity Thinking There is an abundance of single men your age, and they are easily accessible on Tinder, e Harmony, and even IRL (In Real Life).Many are actively looking to get married or remarried, so make sure they can find you.Browse for singles events in your area, and get online with a dating profile. As an over-40 womann you have the great pleasure of dating men who are also 40-plus.Check out my 12 Tips for Online Dating and 9 Tips for Dating With Tinder for more guidance on this topic. Having made one or two mistakes in the past, and experienced some missed opportunities of their own, these gentlemen don’t waste time. George Clooney notwithstanding, most men over 40 relish the shared humor, music and movie references, and general camaraderie of women their own age.READ: The Property Brothers on Dating Identical Twins #3.