I cannot be the only one in the history of dating who has said something stupid on a date. Here are 10 things to think about when you have convinced yourself otherwise.
And at this point, that is the most important thing that you have control over.You might have thought what you said was confusing, terrible, or insane.They could have thought, “no big deal.” Once I said some pretty disagreeable things about my date’s political stance on abortion (I KNOW, SHUT UP OKAY) and I felt terrible.I harbored all this pain and regret until a few dates later, when I finally apologized. Superdude the whole date, you’d be way too intimidating.(Unless you are.) Nobody is scrutinizing every tweet, eyeroll, or over-analyzation of The Real Housewives Of Orange County that you made.
Even if they thought you said something wacky, they have probably forgotten about it by the time you finish reading this.It’s time to move on and start getting psyched for your next date.And if it isn’t with the same person, it will be with someone new.#1 he barely remembered, and #2, when he finally remembered , he said, “Oh no I thought that was a great conversation! Plus: 5 Ways To Fix A First Date Gaffe Do you know how I know this?I love debate.” And I thought, “all that pain and suffering for nothing.” It bears repeating (and perhaps I should point out that it applies to each point on this list) that even if you said something TOTALLY crazy (like you think their huge head probably gets in the way of their sex life), tell yourself “it probably wasn’t that bad.” You’ll feel better. Because they are reading this article right now, too.And at this point, that is the most important thing that you have control over. You casually and humbly mentioned your awesome bowling score. I love you, but I did not write this article just for your eyes.